Weddings at birdsall house
Birdsall, North Yorkshire
Romance has been part of the Birdsall story since 1719, when Thomas Willoughby sought refuge from a snowstorm and fell in love with Elizabeth Sotheby who lived in this very house. This sense of love and warmth is what makes Birdsall so special – a place where love and heritage feels personal.
Weddings at Birdsall House are bespoke and exclusively designed, guided by our expert events team, from the first conversation to the final farewell. From garden ceremonies in the 11th century monastic ruins or expansive marquee weddings on the lawns, to candlelit dinners in the Ballroom and joyous celebrations in the The Old Kitchens, every element is shaped with an attention to detail so your wedding feels natural and completely yours.
As one of Yorkshire’s most sought-after exclusive wedding venues, Birdsall House offers a truly unique setting where a Heritage House truly is a family home.
Weddings at Birdsall House are bespoke and exclusively designed, guided by our expert events team, from the first conversation to the final farewell. From garden ceremonies in the 11th century monastic ruins or expansive marquee weddings on the lawns, to candlelit dinners in the Ballroom and joyous celebrations in the The Old Kitchens, every element is shaped with an attention to detail so your wedding feels natural and completely yours.
As one of Yorkshire’s most sought-after exclusive wedding venues, Birdsall House offers a truly unique setting where a Heritage House truly is a family home.
A place to gather
Milestone Moments
At Birdsall House, we offer a bespoke planning service to help each couple imagine the many beautiful ways their celebration can unfold across the house and grounds. Explore the spaces here to discover the capacities and possibilities of each setting, offering an insightful guide to what we can create together.
0
weddings
only held at Birdsall each year
0
guests
can stay in additional self-catering accommodation at our partner venue, Langton Hall (less than 3 miles away)
0
guests
can stay onsite across six beautifully appointed bedrooms at Birdsall House
0
guests
for evening celebrations in The Old Kitchens
0
guests
for marquee weddings on the lawn
0
guests
for wedding breakfasts within Birdsall House
0
guests
for ceremonies within the Church on the grounds of Birdsall
0
Guests
for ceremonies within Birdsall House
Your day, your way
As part of your wedding experience at Birdsall, our full bespoke planning service is included, whether you imagine a two-day, three-day, or even four-day celebration. From the moment you choose Birdsall, a dedicated team is by your side, guiding you both through every part. Below is a glimpse of how a three-day wedding might unfold here.
Arrive & Embrace
Friday
16:00 - Guests Arrive
17:00 - Wedding Rehersal
18:00 - Welcome Drinks
19:30 - Dinner
22:00 - Early to Bed
Your Wedding Day
Saturday
08:30 - Guests Breakfast
14:00 - Wedding Ceremony
15:00 - Drinks Reception
17:00 - Wedding Breakfast
19:30 - Cocktail Hour
20:30 - First Dance
00:30 - Carriages
Relive & Revive
Sunday
09:00 - Guests Breakfast
10:00 - Brunch on the Verandah
Croquet & Reminiscences
12:30 - BBQ Lunch
16:00 - Homeward Bound
Team
Our experienced Birdsall team work closely with you, guiding every detail, coordinating trusted suppliers, and quietly managing the day itself so you can relax and enjoy every unforgettable moment together.
Planning service
Planning your perfect day
From first enquiry to last dance, our dedicated Birdsall team brings warmth, experience and calm expertise, working seamlessly behind the scenes to deliver celebrations that feel effortless, personal and memorable.
Nicki
Nicki brings her background in media and television production to Birdsall with energy and imagination. She oversees PR and is developing a new programme of events to welcome more people to the house. Organised, positive and full of enthusiasm, she has a wonderful can-do attitude that brings ideas to life with ease and joy.
Harriet
Harriet oversees all private hire events with warmth, clarity and dedication. She is warm, welcoming and highly organised, guiding each celebration with care and calm professionalism. Her hard work and thoughtful planning ensure every detail is considered. Whether hosting weddings, corporate gatherings or private visits, she goes above and beyond when creating memorable and brilliantly run occasions for every guest.
Cara
Cara leads Birdsall with warmth, creativity and a thoughtful eye for detail. Cara lives at Birdsall House with her family and organises the tours and events, taking time to understand each couple or client, offering calm guidance and genuine care throughout the planning journey. Her approach is welcoming, personal and rooted in creating celebrations that feel meaningful and beautifully memorable.
Scroll through your day
Your Ceremony
Couples at Birdsall have an array of beautiful ceremony spaces to choose from, each with its own character and sense of occasion. St. Mary’s Church, set within the grounds of the estate, offers a timeless setting for a religious ceremony or blessing. Civil ceremonies may unfold among the 11th century ruins or on the verandah overlooking the blooming gardens, or even within our elegant state rooms including the Dining Room, Oval Room or Ballroom. For more intimate ceremonies or for a micro wedding, the Little Temple or Library provide a refined and romantic setting. Whatever you choose, the backdrop of Birdsall offers the grandeur of a stately home wedding venue but with total flexibility and personalisation.
Scroll through your day
Reception
Receptions at Birdsall can unfold in the gardens where guests may enjoy champagne and the occasional game of croquet against the backdrop of sweeping parkland views. Alternatively, the house’s elegant reception rooms, such as the Drawing Room, Oval Room or Ballroom, provide warmth, elegance and an inviting atmosphere. Whether your day is bathed in sunlight or calls for the comfort of indoor spaces, every part of Birdsall House is perfectly prepared to host your celebration with effortless elegance, seamless flow, and a true sense of occasion – making it one of Yorkshire’s most renowned luxury wedding locations.
Scroll through your day
Wedding Breakfast
‘The first meal shared by a couple after they are married. The term refers to the symbolic breaking of the fast of their separate lives and the beginning of their new chapter together, rather than the time of day it is served’
Your Wedding Breakfast at Birdsall is a cherished moment, when family and friends gather to celebrate with you. Hosted in the iconic Dining Room, the twinkling Ballroom, or a magnificent marquee set within the gardens, the atmosphere is always warm, celebratory, and full of joy. Our highly recommended chefs craft menus using the finest local produce from North Yorkshire, blending refined fine dining with the comfort of hearty, seasonal dishes. Every menu is thoughtfully tailored to you, creating a dining experience that feels unique. Coupled with elegant table styling your Wedding Breakfast becomes a beautifully curated celebration.
Your Wedding Breakfast at Birdsall is a cherished moment, when family and friends gather to celebrate with you. Hosted in the iconic Dining Room, the twinkling Ballroom, or a magnificent marquee set within the gardens, the atmosphere is always warm, celebratory, and full of joy. Our highly recommended chefs craft menus using the finest local produce from North Yorkshire, blending refined fine dining with the comfort of hearty, seasonal dishes. Every menu is thoughtfully tailored to you, creating a dining experience that feels unique. Coupled with elegant table styling your Wedding Breakfast becomes a beautifully curated celebration.
Scroll through your day
Evening Revellery
As daylight fades, the celebrations at Birdsall gracefully transform into a vibrant evening affair. Guests are guided downstairs to The Old Kitchens, a subterranean speakeasy hidden beneath the classic heritage of Birdsall House. Opulent interiors, sumptuous velvet sofas and secret side rooms set the scene, while a state-of-the-art sound and lighting system brings the dance floor to life. Here, the party begins as the formality of the day gives way to music, dancing, laughter and shared joy. A space designed for celebration.
Scroll through your day
Staying With Us
Birdsall offers elegant on-site accommodation for up to 12 guests, including our newly renovated Bridal Suite and five serene en-suite bedrooms, all finished with luxurious linens and Bramley toiletries. Just moments away, Langton Hall provides beautifully restored cottages for a further 56 guests, offering the perfect complement to your wedding celebrations.
Further Details
Beginning your wedding planning journey can make it difficult to know what your celebration may ultimately cost, as no two weddings are ever the same and each involves its own blend of suppliers, styles and priorities. To help you gain an early understanding of the costs for a Birdsall wedding, we have prepared a considered guide to likely fees.
Couples Galleries
Don't just take our word for it
Testimonials
We wanted to write and say how unbelievably grateful we are for all the generous, kind and thoughtful touches you added to our wedding day. We felt so lucky to be able to look back with the fondest memories which we will treasure forever. We truly wouldn’t not have changed a thing and our guests cannot stop raving about it as the best wedding this year – and we have had a lot!! No ask was too much for you all and we are so thankful that we chose to marry at Birdsall.
Wedding, C&S 2024
It was a fantastic occasion and thank you for allowing us to share your beautiful home as the backdrop to a very special day. No occasion such as this is as successful without all the hard work and dedication that goes on behind the scenes. The marketing strapline for Birdsall should be “Our baseline is magnificent”, it was certainly that…and more!!
Wedding, A&O 2025
We wanted to send our heartfelt thanks for welcoming us for our wedding day. From start to finish, everything ran so seamlessly, and we’re still feeling overwhelmed with gratitude at how magical the whole experience was. From our first visit, Cara and Harriet, you both made us feel completely at ease. Every meeting and conversation in the lead-up to the big day felt warm, welcoming, and helpful – no idea was ever too ambitious (Shetland Ponies!). Your calm approach and excellent communication made planning such a pleasure, and we always knew we were in the most capable hands. The entire day surpassed all expectations and we feel incredibly lucky to have started our married life in such a stunning setting, supported by such an outstanding team.
Wedding, A&M 2025
Get in touch
